Psalm 68v6 speaks of God placing ‘the solitary in families’. God has created us as social beings and as such loneliness and isolation are not part of his plan for us. We need one another and we all benefit from the encouragement, comfort and direction that we are able to give one another. It is certainly not a sign of weakness to acknowledge that we could benefit from a listening ear or are in need of an encouraging word. In the course of conversation many are surprised to discover that the very problems and difficulties they are struggling with are part of the experience of those whom they share them with. Indeed, Paul encourages the Corinthians to recognise that ‘the God of all comfort comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.’ [2Cor.1v3-4]. This inter-dependence also finds expression in the language scripture uses to describe the church – we are a ‘body’ and as such need each other. To try to struggle along as a solitary hermit Christian is to miss out on God’s rich provision for our comfort and encouragement.
The Kirk Session in St Peter’s takes seriously our responsibility of care. We believe that the bulk of pastoral care takes place as we sit under the ministry of God’s Word Sunday by Sunday and as we share together in day to day hospitality and fellowship. In addition, the home groups are intended to address pastoral problems as we gather around God’s Word. Many recognise the therapy associated with viewing life’s experiences through the filter of God’s word – our greatest source of wisdom. However, for many additional and specific support and encouragement can be really helpful. This can be given in a very relaxed manner as members of the congregation share their concerns. Often all that people require is for someone to act as a sounding board so that in the course of conversation any decisions that need to be made become clear. Others find that as a result of sharing some burden they attain a new sense of perspective so that what once appeared to be a crushing mountain becomes no more than an unpleasant molehill.
The Kirk Session is currently putting in place a small pastoral visitation team – men and women, young and old – tailored to fit the need of our congregation. Members of this team are happy to meet with any member or adherent of the congregation. They can meet with you in your home, flat or, if it is more convenient, at a mutually suitable coffee shop. The choice of venue is yours. Confidentiality of team members is something you should be able to rely upon. If you would benefit from such a meeting or, would like further information or, if you know of someone who might benefit from a visit please get in touch with Andy Pearson.
Email: andy@stpeters-dundee.org.uk